Carol Cirabisi | Relationship Counseling | Marriage Counseling | Couples Counseling

Let’s start with a few questions:

Is there conflict in your relationship?

Are you wondering why you and your partner can’t seem to understand one another despite how much you try to “work on” the relationship?

Are there repeating themes to the troubles between you?

Does it seem that your partner is so concerned with being heard him/herself that he/she doesn’t really ever hear you?

Do you feel frustrated that if only your partner would simply do, say, think, be something different, things would be ok?

Has one of you had a physical or emotional affair?

Do you wonder where the “meaning” is in your life with this other person?

Do you question if this is “the right person for me?”

Or perhaps, you wonder sometimes, “Maybe there's something wrong with me?”

If you can answer “yes” to any of these questions, you might benefit from learning to live and relate more mindfully, that is with more conscious awareness of who you are and how you interact with the world.

Even if you answered “yes” to all the questions, your relationship doesn’t have to be doomed! There is a way to really allow your partner to become your ally, your friend, your confidante, and you can grow as individuals and within a couple.

Intimate relationships provide a perfect opportunity for each of us to look at ourselves in ways that would not be possible if we did not have a significant other mirroring our flaws, imperfections, our human-ness, if you will. In fact, intimate relationships actually provide us with the materials we each need in order to grow emotionally and spiritually, to reach our fullest Potential….

So another few questions for you:

Are you ready to learn to step back out of the conflict itself to find a place of calm within yourself; a place of consciousness, a place of objective observation?

Are you ready to find that place in You that recognizes the moment that the energy between you has changed? That place in You that can stop the cycle of conflict and blame and fear.

Are you ready to become aware of that place in you that recognizes the underlying desire for Connection, for Love?

Are you ready to recognize that place in You that resonates with that very same place in your partner – whether you both are aware of it or not.

Let’s get started…

Give me a call at:
239.434.5855

Or send me an email at:
carol@MindfulLivingSWFL.com

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